The movie star’s child faced body image struggles, eating disorders, and harsh criticism early on. She was called “fat” and “ugly” and once said she felt “lifeless.” Here’s a look at her journey to adulthood.
Veteran actress Kim Basinger shares her only child, Ireland Baldwin, with award-winning actor Alec Baldwin. Growing up in the public eye, Ireland faced early exposure to the spotlight, which often led to controversy. Now, she has stepped into a new chapter of life as a parent herself.
Kim and Alec married in August 1993, and two years later, in October 1995, they welcomed their daughter, Ireland. Just three days after her birth, Alec was already fighting to protect her privacy from relentless paparazzi.
Kim Basinger and Alec Baldwin attend a wedding on September 9, 1995, in Southampton, New York. | Source: Getty Images
The intense public scrutiny surrounding Ireland began almost immediately. Kim and Alec arrived home with their newborn daughter shortly after her birth, only to find freelance photographer Alan Zanger recording from across the street.
The actor reportedly confronted Zanger, saying, “I don’t mind if you film me, but I don’t want you filming the baby.” The situation quickly escalated, with Alec accused of battery after allegedly striking the photographer.
Zanger, no stranger to controversy, had previously faced attacks and fines for his aggressive pursuit of celebrity images. This incident was just the beginning of the relentless media attention Ireland would face throughout her life.
Despite her early experiences with intense media attention, she found herself back in the spotlight at age 11. In 2007, a private voicemail from her famous father made headlines when he called her “a rude, thoughtless, little pig.” The incident quickly spiraled into a scandal, temporarily costing Alec, who divorced Kim in 2002, his visitation rights.
Daily News newspaper pictured on April 22, 2007 | Source: Getty Images
However, his daughter later offered a different perspective. In a 2012 interview at 16, Ireland explained that her father’s words came from frustration, “The only problem with that voice mail was that people made it out to be a way bigger deal than it was.”
Hilaria Thomas, Alec, and Ireland Baldwin attend the Group For The East End’s 40th Anniversary Benefit and Auctionat Wolffer Estate Vineyard on June 23, 2012, in Sagaponack, New York. | Source: Getty Images
She recalled simply calling him back and saying, “‘Sorry Dad, I didn’t have my phone,’” and they moved on. Looking back, Ireland divulged that she and her father even joked about the controversy, nearly turning it into a comedic YouTube sketch.
Ireland Baldwin pictured at Los Angeles International Airport on December 10, 2012, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
She empathized with the “30 Rock” alum’s frustration toward the paparazzi, saying, “My dad has been going through it for so long, I can see how he gets frustrated,” and acknowledged that if her own career in showbiz took off, she might feel the same way.
Ireland Baldwin and Hilaria Thomas at Streets of Manhattan on June 30, 2012, in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
Determined to create her own path, Ireland said in another interview, “I don’t want to forever be known as ‘that rude thoughtless little pig’ or ‘Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger’s kid.’ I have passions and interests of my own that I want to give life to.”
Kim Basinger and Ireland Baldwin photographed at Los Angeles International Airport on December 10, 2012, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Ireland’s desire to forge her own identity led her to pursue a career in modeling and acting, following in her parents’ footsteps. She took her modeling aspirations to the next level in March 2013 by signing with the prestigious agency IMG, marking the milestone with a swimsuit spread in the New York Post.
Ireland Baldwin attends Madonna’s “Fashion Evolution” Pop-Up Exhibit on April 25, 2013, in Century City, California. | Source: Getty Images
By May of that year, the California native revealed in a People magazine photoshoot that Kim was her inspiration. Her mother encouraged her to explore modeling to see if it was the right fit, and Ireland discovered she loved it.
Kim, who also began her career as a model before becoming an Oscar-winning actress, advised her daughter to block out negative comments, “always keep positive,” and “be confident.”
Ireland Baldwin arrives at the 65th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards on September 22, 2013, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Alec offered similar words of encouragement to his daughter, especially about maintaining confidence and ignoring critics. Embracing their advice, Ireland shared, “I want to be a healthy model, an inspirational model. I want people to look at me and be able to relate to my figure and relate to what I resemble.”
Alec and Ireland Baldwin at the 65th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards on September 22, 2013, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Ireland’s commitment to making her own mark extended beyond the runway. In 2018, at 22 years old, she followed in Kim’s footsteps by posing nude for PETA, 24 years after her mother’s iconic 1994 campaign for the animal-rights group.
Ireland Baldwin attends Jeffrey Sanker’s 2018 White Party on April 28, 2018, in Palm Springs, California. | Source: Getty Images
Ireland shared that seeing her mother’s PETA campaign images as a child inspired her to participate in the cause. She expressed a deep commitment to continuing Kim’s lifelong advocacy for animal rights and aimed to carry on that legacy through her own efforts.
Ireland Baldwin attends the 2018 iHeartRadio Music Festival on September 21, 2018, in Las Vegas, Nevada. | Source: Getty Images
The actress’s passion for self-expression extended beyond her advocacy work. In 2022, she made a bold statement by debuting a platinum blonde buzz cut. Sharing the transformation online, she confidently captioned her post, “Don’t tell me I won’t do something because I will.”
Her stories documented the process, as she bid farewell to her “red villain era” and welcomed a fresh start. Years of bleaching and modeling had taken a toll on her hair, and Ireland explained, “Now that I don’t care about what other people think, I feel more beautiful than ever.” Kim supported her daughter’s daring new look, commenting, “I’m a witness to that and have been for many years … Simply beautiful.”
Despite the confidence she exudes, Ireland has been open about her struggles with body image. “I never thought of myself as a pretty girl,” she once admitted, sharing how her relationship with food often mirrored her emotional state.
At times, she would overeat when upset or refuse to eat out of frustration with her appearance. The celebrity addressed these challenges in a heartfelt online post once, revealing that years of online criticism had taken a toll.
“I have been called some version of fat, ugly, worthless and irrelevant by grown adults on the internet since I was a kid,” she shared. Ireland also spoke about invasive paparazzi photos capturing her cellulite, back fat, and other perceived flaws.
That same month, during an appearance on “Red Table Talk,” she opened up further about the depths of her struggles, candidly revealing that she had reached a breaking point, turning to Xanax and alcohol to cope while battling her eating disorders.
The shame she felt left her feeling detached and isolated from her loved ones as she didn’t speak to her parents for a year. “I was lifeless,” she admitted, reflecting on a period where she felt completely out of control.
Despite these hardships, Ireland declared, “I [expletive] LOVE food … like romantically. I love my body. I love the way it moves. I love how I feel in it,” adding, “I am in the most freeing mental headspace I have ever been in about my body image.”
Determined to take control of her life, Ireland made significant changes. At 27, she had stepped away from Hollywood and settled on the Oregon coast, where she and her partner, musician André Allen Anjos (also known as RAC), opened Good Times—a wine bar, café, and boutique.
As the couple prepared to welcome their first child, Ireland expressed her desire to create a stable environment, something she felt she lacked growing up.
The then-mother-to-be shared plans to raise her child differently, focusing on the stability she wished for in her own childhood.
Now 29, Ireland is a mother to her daughter, Holland. In May 2024, she posted a heartwarming video of Kim playing with Holland by the pool, holding a stuffed animal to entertain her granddaughter. Ireland humorously captioned the moment, “@kim.basinger’s latest role as lady elmo.”
Ireland’s striking features and authenticity have not gone unnoticed by her followers. Over the years, many have drawn comparisons between her and Kim.
In one Instagram post, one follower remarked, “You look like Kim in 80s.” Another echoed, “My goodness you look just like your beautiful mom.” In February 2020, someone else added, “You are Kim’s daughter. Great genes.”
Others have praised Ireland for her genuine nature and beauty. One admirer wrote, “You are so real! You don’t try to be fake to please everyone. I absolutely love it! You are beautiful!” Another simply stated, “You are truly a beauty.”
Ireland’s journey has been shaped by resilience, self-discovery, and a desire to forge her own path. Embracing her individuality while honoring her family’s legacy, Kim Basinger’s daughter continues to inspire with her authenticity, confidence, and unwavering strength.